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The Most Unexpected Career Advice
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Okay story time… If you’ve been around my coaching practice for some time, you know that I think the world of my husband. We've journeyed through a lot together and I remember one particularly stressful career pivot… I was deciding if I should leave my steady management consulting role to join an early-stage startup as a Co-Founder. I found myself stuck after building multiple financial models, talking to advisors and flip flopping about whether to say “Yes” or “No”. Want to know what sealed the deal for me? One simple statement from my husband. He looked at me and said, “You’ve got to do this. You light up when you talk about the startup and team. We’ll figure everything else out. Just go for it.” So I did. And I’m so glad I did. (you probably wouldn’t be reading this if I hadn’t) So, if you’re in the midst of a career transition, have you considered the powerful role your partner plays in shaping your career journey? Your partner is often your biggest supporter (and influencer), and involving them in your career decisions can bring clarity and alignment. In fact, couples who openly discuss their goals are more likely to achieve them, with studies showing a 42% higher likelihood of success when goals are shared. That’s why I recommend taking time to talk with your partner about what comes next - not just for your job, but for the life you want to create together. My favorite way to do this is to plan a "Dream Date".Here's what it looks like...Set aside time for a “Dream Date” where you and your partner focus on answering one big question: What kind of life do we want to create? This isn’t just about your next role; it’s about envisioning a future that excites both of you. It can be a date night out, a cozy evening in, or even a walk in the park—whatever setting helps you both feel comfortable and open. Dream Date Template: 3 Key QuestionsUse these three questions as a guide during your Dream Date to have a meaningful discussion: 1. What are our top 3 priorities in the next 5 years? 2. What does success look like for us, both personally and professionally? 3. How can we support each other through this transition? Why This MattersBy taking the time to align on your shared vision, you can approach your job search with a clearer understanding of what opportunities will support your life together. It makes the process less about “finding any job” and more about “finding the right fit.” And when your partner understands your vision, they can be a true advocate for your goals, helping you navigate challenges along the way. Make the Most of Your Career Transition - TogetherCareer transitions feel uncertain, but they’re also an opportunity to redefine your path in a way that supports the life you want to build. Spend time with your partner to ensure that your next steps are aligned with both your personal and professional goals. It’s time to turn this career change into a chance for growth, together. I'm curious! Have you tried a Dream Date before? How did it go? What would you add? If this is new for you and you give it a try, I'd love to hear from you, just hit reply to this email. Until Next Week, Beckie When you’re ready, here are 2 ways I can help…
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Design a Career You Love
Join my global crew of 6-figure professionals at companies like Google, Deloitte. Microsoft and Lululemon to get weekly career strategies and job search tips right to your inbox. These emails are FREE and the strategies I share are taken right from my one-on-one coaching sessions (so I know they work really well).
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