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A few weeks ago, I spoke with a professional who told me she wanted to make another $50,000 in the next two years. On the surface, that seemed straightforward. Like many professionals, she assumed the next step was to pursue a larger role with a bigger compensation package. But as we continued talking, she started to realize that the money wasn't actually the problem. Or at least, it wasn't the only problem. She was exhausted. Her role had expanded to the point where work was consuming most of her time and energy. She had young children at home and wanted more flexibility to show up as the parent she wanted to be. She wanted to continue growing professionally, but not at the expense of everything else she cared about. The more we talked, the more obvious it became: She didn't need a $50,000 raise. She needed a different set of trade-offs.
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The real issueOne of the biggest mistakes I see professionals make is jumping straight to solutions before they've clearly defined the problem. They tell themselves:
Sometimes they're right. Often they're not. The challenge is that most of us evaluate opportunities using the same lens we've always used. We look one step ahead to the next title, promotion or logical linear move. But careers don't work the way they used to. Ten years ago, a relatively linear path made sense. Today, the number of viable options available to experienced professionals is dramatically larger than most people realize.
The issue isn't that these opportunities don't exist. It's that most people never stop long enough to consider them. So, what changed?In many cases, the answer isn't your career. It's your life. For example, a new child arrives or you become burned out by a toxic environment. Your financial goals evolve or you become interested in solving a different problem set. For some it's about valuing flexibility more than status or satisfying a curiosity about something like building a business. For others, it's the loss of a loved one that changes your goals. What I've noticed is that when life changes, the criteria for a good career decision often changes too. However, people never update those criteria (or at least not consciously). Instead, they continue evaluating opportunities based on assumptions that no longer fit the life they're trying to build. That's where people get stuck. What most professionals missBefore evaluating opportunities, you need to define what I call your decision conditions. In other words: What must be true for your next move to actually be successful?
None of these are right or wrong - often multiple are present. But defining what must be true for you leads to very different decisions. And until those conditions are clear, every opportunity gets evaluated through the wrong lens. The cost of getting this wrongMost people think the cost is staying put. In reality, the bigger cost is often making a decision before you've fully understood what you're trying to solve. That's how professionals end up taking roles that look great on paper but fail to deliver what they actually wanted - whether that's more flexibility, more meaningful work, greater autonomy, or a different lifestyle. The result isn't just a disappointing move; it's months or years invested in a path that was never aligned in the first place. What I'm buildingAfter working with hundreds of professionals over the last decade, I've started to notice a pattern. The clients I work with don't struggle because they lack capability or opportunities. They struggle because they're making an important career decision that affects every part of their life without a clear framework for evaluating it. As a result, many attempt to figure it out in real time. They start networking, exploring opportunities, updating their resume, and having conversations, hoping clarity will emerge through the process. Sometimes it does. But it can also lead to months of uncertainty, a longer path to a decision, or accepting an opportunity that solves one problem while creating another. I've seen this with professionals across consulting, technology, finance, marketing, engineering, healthcare, and corporate leadership. Most professionals don't need another job search strategy. They need a better decision process. That's why I created the Career Decision System. The Career Decision SystemThe Career Decision System is a structured 30-day process designed to help experienced professionals determine what their next move should be before they start pursuing opportunities. Step 1: Define your decision conditionsWe identify what your next move actually needs to accomplish based on your goals, constraints, priorities, family situation, financial objectives, and long-term vision. Most people skip this step and immediately start evaluating jobs. Step 2: Expand and evaluate your option setMost professionals only evaluate the opportunities they can currently see. We broaden the lens and evaluate adjacent roles, industries, companies, consulting opportunities, advisory work, entrepreneurial paths, and alternative career models that align with your decision conditions. The goal isn't more options. The goal is better options. Step 3: Build your go-to-market planOnce we've identified the strongest path forward, we create a clear execution strategy so you know exactly how to pursue it. Networking strategy. The outcome isn't just clarity. It's confidence that you're solving the right problem and pursuing the right opportunity. Most people spend three to six months trying to figure this out on their own. We do it in 30 days. Ready to determine your next move?If you're considering a promotion, career change, industry transition, consulting path, entrepreneurial opportunity, or simply trying to determine what your next move should be, this is exactly what the Career Decision System was designed for. I'm currently opening 9 spots. If you'd like help defining your decision conditions, evaluating your options, and building a clear go-to-market plan for what's next, book a Career Strategy Call below:
We'll talk through where you're at, whether the Career Decision System is the right fit, and what your strongest path forward could look like. Until next week, Beckie |
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