what if the promotion doesn’t come?


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You can feel it in the air right now.
The annual performance review cycles. The side chats with your manager. The low-key rumors about who's “in line” for what.

It’s promotion season.

And if you’re waiting, watching, or wondering if this is your year… I want to say something that might feel uncomfortable:

Even if you get it - ​
The title. The bump. The expanded scope.
​It still might not be enough.

Because here’s what I see all the time:

Smart, capable people doing everything right inside their company.

  • Crushing their goals.
  • Leading major projects.
  • Training others.
  • Saying yes when they want to say no.

And still: silence. Delays. Vague “not yets.”
Or a promotion that looks good on paper - but changes nothing that actually matters.

Don’t wait your way into clarity

If you’re in that middle zone right now - half-in, half-out - it’s a hard place to sit.
You’re doing your part. But the decision isn’t yours to make. It’s behind closed doors.

And that’s the trap:
You start hoping. Waiting. Rationalizing.

“If I just hang on three more months…”
“If I can prove myself one more time…”

Here’s what I want you to hear today:​
You can do everything in your power to position yourself for a promotion AND​
still prepare to create new opportunities outside your org.

Those two things are not in conflict.
In fact - they’re the strongest position you can be in.

If that’s where you are right now - hovering between hope and hesitation - hit reply and tell me what’s keeping you stuck.

Even just putting it into words can bring clarity.

And if you want to talk through it, click HERE to book a free 1:1 Career Strategy Call with me.​

Promotions are rewards. They’re not strategies.

A promotion can be exciting. Validating. Well-earned.
But it is not a career strategy.

Because a promotion doesn’t always equal growth.
And it definitely doesn’t equal freedom.

Here’s how it often plays out:

  • You get the title, but not the autonomy.
  • You get the comp bump, but not the respect.
  • You get more responsibility, but still feel stuck in the same system.

Or - worst of all - you don’t get it.
And you’re left holding the same workload, same pressure, same invisible ceiling.

So… what do you do?

You start designing leverage.​
You start building a career that moves with you - not one that keeps you waiting.

Not by rage-quitting.
Not by panic-applying to 47 roles you don’t actually want.
And definitely not by staying stuck in reflection mode forever.

Here’s how you move from reflection to momentum:

1. Get brutally clear on what you want next.

Not what your company wants. Not what recruiters are posting.
What you want. In plain, specific language.

Try this prompt:

“12 months from now, I want to be working on [problem you love solving], with [type of team/support], in a role that gives me [your non-negotiables].”

2. Audit your alignment.

Ask:

  • Am I solving the problems I care about?
  • Am I working at the right level - or am I under-scoped?
  • Am I getting the support, comp, or visibility that matches the work I’m doing?

3. Map your invisible assets.

Leverage isn’t just comp. It’s:

  • Trusted relationships
  • Unique experiences
  • A strong POV in your field
  • A body of work that tells a clear story

4. Start having quiet conversations.

Reach out to 3–5 people you trust. Ask:

“What are you seeing in your org right now that’s exciting - or frustrating?”
“If you were me, thinking about what’s next, what would you be exploring?”

5. Package your story before you need to tell it.

Get clear on:

  • The problems you love solving
  • The value you uniquely bring

This becomes your anchor - and a filter for what fits.

This is how you shift from hoping to building.​
No begging for scraps.
No waiting for permission.
Just you - getting clear, getting connected, and getting ready.

If you’re stuck right now - let’s talk about it

If you’re in this zone - waiting, wondering, or quietly unraveling - it’s time to move.
Not into chaos.
Not into panic.
But into momentum.

This doesn’t have to mean handing in a resignation letter tomorrow.
It just means taking your career off pause.

I’d love to hear from you:

Hit reply and tell me:

  • What’s keeping you stuck right now?
  • What do you wish someone would help you figure out?

No pressure. No pitch.
Just a real convo from someone who gets it - and wants you to feel like you’ve got options again.

You don’t have to wait on someone else’s decision to move forward.
​You get to decide.

I’m in your corner.
Beckie

P.S. If this hit a nerve, forward it to a friend who’s also in the thick of it.
You’re not the only one waiting on a decision that shouldn’t define your future.

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